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ક્યાં સુધી.....
આ દુનિયાની સ્ત્રીઓ ડર માં રહેશે??
શા માટે એવી બિહામણી રીતે પીછો કરીને પૂછવામાં આવે કે તારે આવવું છે..
શા માટે વર્ષો થી એ કારણ આપીને છૂટી જવાય છે કે છોકરી ના કપડા બરાબર પહેર્યાં નથી..
કેમ ક્યારેય પુરુષો ની આટલી ખરાબ નિયત ને વખોડવા વિચાર પણ આવતા નથી.
શું છોકરી હસી ને વાત કરે એને કેમ છોકરીને હકારત્મક સમજી ને એના પર જબરજસ્તી થાય છે.
શું કોઈ બાબતે સહમતી જરૂરિયાત લાગતી નથી.
જ્યારે પુરુષના અવતારને એક દિવ્ય સત્તા જ સાથે પેદા થયા છે જે કોઈ પણ સ્ત્રી ને મિલકત સમજી ને હક વગર જબરજસ્તી વાપરવાની જ વાત.
મહિલા દિન ત્યારે જ યોગ્ય ગણાય જ્યારે મહિલા પોતાને કોઈ પણ સ્થળે સુરક્ષિત માને. નહિ તો આ મારા તરફથી જે લોકોની આ બાબતમાં છોકરીઓ ના જ વાંક કાઢે છે તેમને મોટો તમાચો જ છે.

अल्फ़ाज़ क्या कहूं तुझे।

इन खवामोशियो से निकलते हुए लफ्ज़ सुनाई देते है।
The Rain We Love

इतनी शक्ती हमें देना दाता।
मन की खुशी हमसे बरदास होना।
The Rain We Love

यूहीं नहीं है ये बात जो हमारे बीच में हैं!!!!
क्यू नहीं बोली हुई बात भी हमारे ज़हन में है??
The Rain We Love

छूट गए वो लोग जिन पर हमें नाज़ है।
छूट गए वो सारे बधन जो हमारे करीब थे।
आपने कमाई हुई हमारे दिल से वो इज्जत, हमने फिक्स डिपोजिट कर दी है।
The Rain We Love

कितने अरसे हो गए तुम्हारे चहेरे से मेरे लिए एक मुस्कान आते आते। 

हमने वो खुले दिल से की हुई मुस्कान को अपने आखो में समा दिया है। 

The Rain We Love

इरादो में वो जान नहीं जो जान को वापस ला सके।

The Rain We Love

तुम्हारी खामोशी की में क्या बात करू!!

जो हमेशा तुम्हारी ओर ही खींचे!!

The Rain We Love

क्या लोगो को खुश करने का बड़ा जिम्बा उठाना जरूरी है?? 

अब तो आदत सी हो गयी है लोगो की नफरत का कारण बन ने की!!

The Rain We Love 

इतना भी मत इतराना हमारी गलतियों पे! 

की हम अपनी बात को ही गलत मान के खुद के वजूद को ही भूल जाए।

The Rain We Love

हम तो बड़ी सिद्धत से अपना काम निभाते है....... 

जैसे तुम्हे याद करने का काम 

The Rain We Love

जिनको ही ज्यादा मानते है।

उसके की खिलाफ कुछ गलत हो जाने का दर ज्यादा ही बेवकूफी करवाता है। 

The Rain We Love

मेरी आंखों को तुझे हर जगह ढूंढने की आदत सी हो गई है। 

और तुम्हारी आदत है की मेरी आंखों के सामने नई आने की। 

The Rain We Love

मेरी ख्वामोशी तुजे समझ आए तो अच्छा है।

काश में समझा पाती की ये खामोशिकी वजह मेरा भरोसा तोड़ना है।

The Rain We Love

कुछ ऐसा एहसाह है जो बोल के बता नही सकते और समझा भी नही सकते।

ये अजनबी सा एहसाह जो आ जाता है मेरे पास। 

The Rain We Love

छोटी चीजों में तुम्हारा साज है जो मुझे अक्सर तुम्हारी याद दिलाता है।

ये यादों को कैद करने के लिए मेने नया मेमरी कार्ड डलवाया है।

The Rain We Love

क्या संपर्क करना इतना जरूरी है की जहा संपर्क ही असपर्कनीय है। 

The Rain We Love

To get an angry just because of small reasons. 

That small reasons trigger to our mind and it changes our mood, present thought process, mind distracted. Within a second destructed mind lead to anger and ends with violence. For that seconds of period of time one unusual human being come out from us. Expression of temperament to be executed as shout then beat a person. At that point of time everything disappear from our mind like for that person we have respect, love, importance. etc. Do that person is really getting right things from us?? Do that person deserve that shout and violence???

If we talk about particular one relationship - husband wife relations 

where 

* Salt is less in food
* 5 minutes late for serving food  
* Child is crying, He/she should not cry, fall down 
* My clothes are clean
* why are you asking for money money
* My In laws are not good
* Why you give a birth to girl child
and much more reasons can be added.
That leads to shout, physical or sexual violence..

Can we see these things around us?? 
If we see how we react is important. 
Do we run away from them or we stand with them.  

After my #office Hours.....

I felt uneasy. I went to surgical ward with the help of Ortho resident without willingness of Avani. To have a thought about ask Bharti's treatment. There I got some more information from different unit's doctor. That's actually not possible (Different unit's doctor will never interfere in different unit's patients).
Suddenly I remembered that 2 days back Dr. Jhalak WhatsApp me about a 11 days clubfoot Child. I got contact Dr. Jhalak 1 year ago. That child is admitted in 1200 bed. So I immediately run there. It was difficult for me to search this special child. I saw small children like chuzee...
I met mother with her clubfoot baby. I gave her information about clubfoot treatment with brosher. As I keep brosher in my beg I thought it's good opportunity to shared clubfoot brosher in every wards.
So I went every wards, Visited sister's table and shared brosher with information.
Last one ward was remained. As I entered in a room I saw 2 lady resident doctor's were talking. Suddenly my attention was caught by waves. I was it was Druv's parents. Druv is a clubfoot affected child, getting treatment under my observation. I was shocked when I saw my child is admitted. I just run to him. From Druv's parents I knew that he is suffering from pneumonia and he was admitted since previous day. There I got it..... if my child is suffering so how can I have peace...
I was having no words, just spoke that if in any need they can call me.
I left the place with shared the broshers to doctors and sister.
With unknown lift from a civil staff van.
I could understand my uneasiness.
24-01-2020
@Jemimah

CURE CLUBFOOT GUJARAT

Success Story

Clinic Name- Ahmedabad Friday Clinic

Child Name: - Ansari Md. Noman Md. Ramzan

ICR No. :- CCW00228370

Gender - Male

Birth Date & Age – 22-04-2015

Address – Mariyam Bivi Ki Chali, Rajpur, Hirpur Tall Naka, Gomtipur, Ahmedabad

Mother Name: Nazminbanu

Father Name:- Md. Ramzan

Economical condition: Lower Middle class 

Treatment details: Casting - 11, FAB

Present status: Walking

Noman 1^st born baby in a broken family with twisted feet and all the blame was on her mother Nazminbanu. Due to financial crisis as a parent came to Ahmedabad Civil hospital. Parents met to counsellor. Counsellor made understood that twisted feet are called clubfoot and clear that it’s not because of the mother’s carelessness. A well as made them understood about treatment part. Then the treatment was started.

As a counsellor notes that a mother is very accurate for the treatment par ether casting or FAB. On the day of appointment she came to Ahmedabad Civil without fail with Noman. Counsellor talked to that mother and she got that Nazminbanu as a mother worked so hard in a day and earns some money to just feel the stomach of 2 children with milk and roti. She does hard work as much as she can do and save money to come at clinic on the day of appointment.

Due to Nazminbanu’s care now Noman can stand on his feet.

     

            

It's evening time

It's evening time,
Where sky has black and white clowd,
Birds are flying,
Cold wind blows.
Now it's moon's time to take charge.
Lights are on.
People are here where some students get finished their studies, professional workers, daily bread earners are here..
Many are having mobile as they can pass their time..
Many are just seating, not talking to their neighbour but silently seating and seeing around.
Bus's frunt glass is covered with drops of rain, still the driver don't feel to wipe it.
Every passenger gets their destination one after another bus stop.
Who will going to drop the driver and ticket conductor to their destination??

                                                        Photo taken at: Siddhi Saiyad ni Jaadi, Ahmedabad

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